You’re Engaged! Now What?

Manic Mondays by Lauren Cooper

You’re finally engaged and you can begin planning the wedding you’ve been dreaming of since…well, forever! Before you slowly go crazy with all those “To Do” lists, save your sanity by following these bridal resolutions:

  • Start with the Guest List

    Photo from Bridal Party Tees

Yes, I’m sorry, but determining the size of your wedding will help put everything together.  You don’t want to put a deposit on that venue you’ve been drooling over, only to discover that your guest list exceeds their maximum!  Deciding on the guest list is your first step and will help you determine your theme and budget. You may have always wanted a small formal affair but it may be nixed if suddenly your guest list includes everyone your parents have ever met, which would consequently send the catering bill soaring.  As tedious as it may seem, sit down with your fiancé and family members contributing to the cost and get on with it. You’ll feel better after it’s done, we promise. 🙂 For advice on creating your guest list, check out Private Receptions blog writer Jennifer Crone’s How To Create Your Guest List.

  • Trust The Experts

Your wedding planner and vendors have your best interest in mind.  After all, if you aren’t happy we aren’t happy!  Be specific with your goals for the wedding, then relax as we work our magic.  If you want a casual, outdoor wedding but your finance wants to be married in a church, your wedding planner will be able to help you compromise. It helps your vendors and your planner immensely when you know what you want; make a list of the things you like and don’t like, or get creative with a collage of images that inspire you. Even if you aren’t completely sure about what you want, lists or visual aids will help everyone reach the final goal: your dream wedding.

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